What’s the best way to tell someone that I want to spend less time with them?

2021.09.22 08:13 WineDrunk69 What’s the best way to tell someone that I want to spend less time with them?

I have a friend who I used to be very close with, we were even roommates for a while and had no problems spending lots of time together. Due to some frustrating behavior on their part (very many instances of not being there for me when I could have used comfort and/or companionship), we grew a bit distant which was also natural as they had moved far away.
Recently, they’ve moved back to my town. They ask to hang out multiple times a week like old times, as if oblivious to any attempts at distancing I made. I was open to seeing if things had changed, but on my end we don’t click like we used to and I’m still hurting from their poor friendship in the recent past, knowing that they have not improved in that capacity either. It feels like a burden/obligation to hang out with them so frequently and I do not enjoy it.
The main problem is that they consider me to be their closest friend in the area, and I suspect they moved partially to be closer to me since they did not have many friends in their previous location. I don’t think it’s fair to either of us if I keep lying to them about being busy multiple times a week, nor if I spend so much time with them despite it being unpleasant for me.
I am thinking I should talk to them and share some of these feelings, but it feels so incredibly harsh and mean to specify that I would like to spend less time with them (this would be my preference regardless of what they say or do to apologize in the immediate future). Do any of you have ideas on how to soften this news, or any better way to approach the situation? Thank you so much for any and all responses.
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